Dai Xiaojun，School of Literature and Journalism, Shandong University、2010 PhD student from Shandong University Literary and Aesthetics Research Center。
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2:00 pm on June 30, 2011，I am taking care of Mr. Zhou Laixiang’s wife, Professor Dai Lei, at Qilu Hospital，Suddenly received a call from teacher Fu Heyuan，Said Mr. Zhou passed away。What a bolt from the blue，I cannot accept this fact no matter what。Because Mr. Zhou was discharged from the provincial hospital at the end of April and went home to recuperate，I handled the discharge procedures for him that day，Coming out of the hospital，The gentleman is wearing a black suit，Wearing a blue shirt underneath，Wearing a pair of sunglasses，Looking really graceful，Not like an eighty-year-old man。We took a bus to my husband’s daughter’s home on the South Campus of Shandong University，Home is on the third floor of the building，When I went upstairs, Mr. went up in one breath，No need for support at all，After I went up, I saw that my husband was not breathing heavily like bet365 online sports betting，I even joked to my husband at that time，Mr.’s body is better than that of a young man like bet365 online sports betting。Later, my husband went to Beijing to see a doctor，I often contact my husband on the phone，On the one hand, greet his body，On the other hand, report to him on the completion of the Chinese aesthetics course he assigned this semester。I didn’t expect that the hurried meeting on the day I was discharged from the hospital would be the last meeting between Mr. Zhou and bet365 online sports betting，In tears，I can vividly remember every moment of my relationship with my husband during this year，I seem to see Mr. sitting in front of bet365 online sports betting again，Teach bet365 online sports betting lessons in a rigorous and clear language of dialectical thinking，It seems like I saw my husband revising my paper while he was ill again...
Mr. Zhou was appointed as a tenured professor of Shandong University in 2010，I am the first doctoral student since he started recruiting students again。Seriously，I never dared to think about becoming Mr. Zhou’s doctor，Because I was studying for my master’s degree at Shandong University，I heard that my husband is not recruiting doctors because of his age。Also，Who is Mr. Zhou?，Such a famous scholar、Aesthetician，It would be great for a young generation like me to hear one of Mr.’s lectures，How dare you think of becoming Mr.’s student。Unexpectedly, Mr., who is over 80 years old, has started recruiting students again，The first doctoral student recruited bet365 online sports betting mobilewas me，I’m really overjoyed，Extremely excited。
I went to Mr. Zhou’s house for the first time in early September 2010。Mr.’s home does not have luxurious furniture，The decoration is also very simple，Looks very simple，Even a little shabby。Also，There are piles of things everywhere in the living room，Looks a bit messy，Probably the only two people in the family are Mr. Zhou and his wife, Professor Dai Lei，Because they are old and don’t have the energy to clean。What is particularly eye-catching is the hanging on the wall which Sima Qian said "Studying the relationship between heaven and man，Through past and present changes，The calligraphy treasure of "One Family"，I know that Mr. Sima Qian encourages himself，His harmonious aesthetic system is a family statement，But how many people in the long history can become a family！After sitting down，My husband asked bet365 online sports betting about my summer reading and some trivial matters in life，And wrote down my dormitory number and new phone number，Tell bet365 online sports betting to give bet365 online sports betting a class at the Institute of Aesthetics at 9 am on Wednesday (September 15, 2010)，After chatting for a while, I went back to school。It’s 9:00 a.m. on Wednesday，I went to class at the Institute of Aesthetics of Shandong University on time，This is the first time Mr. Zhou teaches bet365 online sports betting，I’m a little excited and a little nervous。I just walked outside the aesthetics office，I saw Mr. walking swiftly from a distance，That spirit is nothing like that of an octogenarian，Looks like an energetic young man，It really amazes bet365 online sports betting。Enter Mr.’s office，Except for the chair where Mr. sits，Books everywhere: bed、On the cabinet、Piles on the floor、bundles，Pile very high，Exudes a strong aroma of books。Be in the midst of it，You don’t have the leisure and ease of visiting the library，There is indeed the reverence of looking up to the mountains。
Find a place to sit down，Facing Mr.，Our class has begun。At first，The gentleman asked me some life questions very kindly，Showing concern for me，It also relaxed my slightly nervous mood。The husband said: “It’s been difficult for you for a while，The summer vacation doesn’t leave you idle either，It is to let you master the dialectical thinking method of Marxism，Lay the foundation for a better flight in the next step。You may also know，I train students with the most emphasis on cultivating their thinking methods，Without the correct way of thinking, there will be no big breakthroughs in learning。Method is the lifeline of learning，Only a breakthrough in the method，Only in theory can there be new breakthroughs，Problems with method，In fact, it is a problem of people’s deep psychological structure，It’s a matter of thinking mode。Every person has his own thinking mode，Every era has its own thinking mode。The entire ancient Chinese culture cannot escape bet365 online sports betting mobilethe thinking mode of the entire ancient Chinese。Studyed the thinking patterns of ancient Chinese，Not only can you engage in Chinese classical literature、Ancient Aesthetics、Ancient Literary Theory、Ancient Culture，And you can study the entire material culture and spiritual culture of China。Understood this，Just know where the key to the theoretical treasure house is。”
The first assignment Mr. Zhou gave bet365 online sports betting was to combine the method of phenomenology with the method of Marxist dialectical thinking，Use phenomenological methods to supplement and enrich Marxist dialectical thinking methods，To better lay the foundation for constructing Marxist humanities and social sciences，And asked bet365 online sports betting to complete it in one and a half months，The standard of completion is to write a paper and publish it。Seriously，It is not easy to be Mr. Zhou’s PhD，Because studying with him is very tiring、Very bitter。He has a unique method of training students，That means you have to submit written assignments almost once a month，This assignment should be written like a formal paper，To be published，If you don’t write well, you need to rewrite it，You still have to be criticized。So I don’t have enough time to study with him、High pressure，Others can go out and play when they have time、Playing cards，No time to play with him，No holidays，No Sunday，It’s not enough for you to spend the whole time on being unsure，He said that this is how he came when he was in school。Of course，Although time is tight、High pressure，But it can train people，Can make people grow up quickly。Through the assignment of phenomenology，I feel a little bit。After the completion of the thesis on phenomenology，My husband asked bet365 online sports betting to immediately switch to the study of reception aesthetics。As usual, I submit the outline I wrote，Then Mr. Zhou will find a time to let bet365 online sports betting talk about his views on reception aesthetics，He will comb it again、Supplement。But this time I called him to tell him about it，He asked bet365 online sports betting to send the outline to his email，I did it。I originally thought that I would wait for my husband to explain the outline to bet365 online sports betting while reading the book，But Mr. Zuowaiyouwai just didn’t come to the Institute of Aesthetics，Don’t let bet365 online sports betting go to his house either。I’m confused，Is it too cold?，Mr. doesn’t want to come out，Mr. is still sick。Just when I couldn’t figure it out and was muttering，Mr. called bet365 online sports betting at around nine o'clock in the evening，Let bet365 online sports betting go to the Institute of Aesthetics。I arrived to take a look，Good sir，Not sick，It’s just that the voice is a little hoarse。The gentleman said: "I read your outline，Well written，Just write according to this idea！”
This has been a long time，It’s almost Christmas，I am reading a book nervously、Writing a paper。Suddenly one night around ten o'clock，Mr. Zhou called Bet365 gamesme on his mobile phone，I asked where Mr. is，Thinking about going over and talking to him，He didn’t tell bet365 online sports betting。I can only listen carefully，At the beginning he was talking about the writing ideas of acceptance aesthetics，I can still hear clearly，But later on, the sound became smaller and smaller and I couldn’t hear it clearly。I told him not to talk if he was tired，Take a break，But he had no intention of stopping，I can only keep listening，Mr. made this call for fifteen minutes。I found out later，Mr. is sick，Having surgery the next day，Still thinking of bet365 online sports betting and my paper，Just call bet365 online sports betting on your mobile phone，But there was no mention of his illness。Later I went to the hospital to see him and talked about this，The husband said: "I'm afraid if something bad happens，Don’t worry about bet365 online sports betting，Just gave bet365 online sports betting this call。”This is Mr. Zhou，Think first about academics and students，Then you are yourself。I feel both grateful and sad，I shed tears in front of my husband，Mr. still laughs at bet365 online sports betting。
More than twenty days have passed，Teacher Zhou Jiwen called me，Said Mr. Zhou was hospitalized and asked me to go to the hospital to take care of him，I just found out that Mr. Zhou was ill and had surgery。When I arrived at Shandong Provincial Hospital and entered the ward，I just found out that my husband had major surgery，Although it has been so long，But his face is still very pale，No longer as ruddy as before，But I am in good spirits。Lie on the bed and watch me come，Mr. very happy，Want to sit up，I quickly held him to prevent him from moving。As soon as I spoke, I found out that Mr. Zhou had not told me about the operation for a while，Mainly because I’m afraid of delaying my study。From now on until Mr. is discharged from hospital，I usually go to the hospital to see him once a week。At the beginning，His body is very weak，The voice is very low and it is difficult to speak for a while，Because the surgery affected his voice，This needs to be restored slowly。In the process of recovery，Mr. still insists on walking every day with a strong will，It started in the ward，Slowly enter the corridor。I have never seen him using a cane when walking，And he didn’t let me help him either，Don’t even let me follow。I really admire his perseverance，I feel that Mr. is indeed not an ordinary person，He has a strong will and perseverance that ordinary people don’t have。Slowly his health is getting better，The voice is getting louder，Sometimes I just chat with him for a while。It just so happened that I compiled some materials for him，The title is "Dream、Struggle and Enlightenment——My University Life》，It is a lecture he gave to undergraduates。While I’m sorting it out，If you don’t understand something, I’ll ask him，He told me how beautiful the natural environment of Shandong University in Qingdao was，Especially bet365 online sports betting mobilewhen it comes to cloudy days，Dense fog fills the entire campus，Being there is like being in heaven。I feel that he is very happy、Extremely excited，It seems like I am back in school days again，He always said: "It would be great if we could go back to our student days！” He also said that his biggest regret in his life in Qingdao was that he didn’t learn to swim，The reason is that he is too busy studying to learn swimming。Mr. Zhou has a famous saying: "When doing knowledge, you must always move towards what you think is the most reasonable、The most satisfying truth is closer，Pursue firmly，Just do it thoroughly。The next thing is being a human being。I often say，How far to be a human being，As far as learning is concerned。”A person who has been busy studying all day did not learn to swim at the seaside，It can be seen，How persistent Mr. Zhou is in doing things，He will keep pursuing what he sees right，Persistence，Perseverance。Mr. Zhou constructed and adhered to his own harmonious aesthetic system，Unchanged until the last moment of life，It’s impossible without extraordinary will and perseverance。Mr. Zhou also talked about his teacher，It was the famous "Feng Lu Gaoxiao" in the Chinese Department of Shandong University at that time，Words filled with admiration and gratitude。Also talked about how he spent a day in college，His intense study life makes me feel ashamed。After this anyway，Every time I want to be lazy, I think of Mr. Zhou’s day，I don’t dare to be lazy anymore。As the body gradually improves，He asked me to show him my paper on reception aesthetics，I have no choice but to give it to him。Listen to what his daughter, teacher Zhou Wenjun said，If the gentleman is better, he will correct the paper for me，Revised so carefully，Not even a single wrong punctuation mark，And a revised writing outline was written on the back of the manuscript。
Mr. Zhou is a great scholar、Aesthetician，Regard academics as life throughout your life，Never follow what others say，Don’t follow the crowd，Stick to your beliefs，Not happy with things，Don’t feel sorry for yourself，Keep calm in good times，Be able to endure loneliness in times of adversity，Don’t look left or right，Don’t stop at the first glance。Mr. Zhou has been pursuing "harmony" his whole life，In recent years, he has published articles proposing "harmonious thinking"，Use harmonious thinking to observe and solve hot issues in real life，In order to make our best efforts for the construction of a harmonious culture in a harmonious society。It’s a pity that heaven does not fulfill people’s wishes，Mr. fell on the road of academic progress，What a pity。I originally planned to finish my PhD with Mr. Zhou，Do some learning，My husband also assigned bet365 online sports betting tasks，Just starting now，Mr. passed away，I don’t know what Bet365 loginto do in the future。Mr. passed away，Who will protect bet365 online sports betting from now on；Unforgettable teacher’s kindness，From now on, I dream about you all the time！